2009

Well, here we are, 2009.  Even though I'm not a fan of winter, I really do love this time of year.  It is a time of new beginnings, resolutions, and fresh starts.  I have resolved NOT to make resolutions that I can't keep.  I have resolved to make changes that will be more of a lifestyle, and not just a stupid resolution that I can't stick to.  I thought for some time about the changes I would make,  and this is what I've come up with:

1.  BE POSITIVE.  I think I have a habit of looking at the negative of things sometimes, rather than focusing on what is positive in a situation.  This year I hope to be more optimistic.  To look for the good not only in situations, but in people.

2.  SLOW DOWN.  I will not be caught up in the craziness of this world.  To slow down to notice the world around me.  To notice the PEOPLE around me.  To read the extra book at bedtime.  To curl up with a book on a rainy day.  To not get sucked into the world where things and schedules are more important than people.

3.  FORGIVE.  How many times do we let grudges and unresolved arguments stir and fester?  This year I resolve to let go of those things.  The Bible says, "If you forgive those who sin against you, your heavenly Father will forgive you.  But if you refuse to forgive others, your Father will not forgive your sins."  Matthew 6:14.  Lord, please help me to forgive.

4.  WRITE.   I took a writing class this fall.  I didn't realize how fun it would be!  I have always loved writing, but I learned so much through this class.  This year I resolve to write.  Not because I want to be published, not for fame, not for anyone but me.  This year I resolve to write because it's what I love to do.

5.  APPRECIATION.   Oh, I think appreciation is a lost art.  I know this might sound silly, but I really think in this day and age that we forget to tell people we appreciate them.  This year I resolve to tell my husband how much I appreciate him and how he provides for our family.  I resolve to tell my girls how much I appreciate their kind words and their hard work.  I resolve to let the people in my life know why I appreciate them.

6.  REMEMBER MY BLESSINGS.   I could not even begin to list the blessings I have.  I have been blessed beyond measure.  And I resolve to remember those blessings daily.

Welcome to 2009 y'all!  I hope this year finds you all happy and healthy.

Love,

Nicki